Hate that i love U

This is a song that, …just, …greeted me this morning in bed and i …. just wanted to share it…. it was just so relevant after last nite.

ENJOY!!!

Jamaica Football Dying Fast

 To know what and where we were ‘98 and to see where we are now it is unbelievable Crenston Boxhill   has done this country the greastest disservice. That any public servant has ever done and it is not punishable. I think he should be deported. His list of non-achievement  is too long for my blog space but i will point out some of the glaring ones…..

• No Match in the office.
• The U23 Losing to Bahamas just yesterday (Oct. 11).
• Building of a Football Academy with no football field and no clue when it will finish.
• The biggest slide ever on FIFA ranking a not even going to note it.
• And last but definitely not the least the highest paid “foreign” coach ever, who is doing nutten!!! NOTHING!!!!! but collecting J$1.34mil every week.
• The continued bundling of administrative matters, eg. being fined for not taking part in a competition because we could not get a flight for the team.

                                                                                

Now this Coach Name is  Bora Milutinović  his record speak for itself …but when a coach is going to say after losing several matches that winning is not important …..  i start see a whole lot of red flags waving  . He doesn’t care a catshoot about his reputation anymore, know why? because he is now collecting his pension and we are the ones paying it. A mean this man says that, with the amount he is being paid, his only concern is the senior team. The head coach of our programme getting $1.34million, losing left right and centre the and the youth programme in shambles ….and he goes missing whenever he feels like ……. Look seriously Bora has got to go … take a flight …….. BORA TEK WHEY YUHSELF  !!!!  thank you.

                                  

Women… the hopes within

There has been a prevalence of topics in regards to relationships between man and woman at one level or the other within the bloggosphere. Now, me being a “nuffy” i just had to get in my two pence too.

My question is, what is it men want in/from a woman? Most women would want to believe they got it down pat. And on this basis an overload of caution is their response to the passionate advances of us men. Thus the “hunt” was created, to which most men find themselves totally enthralled, out of which emerges the never ending cycle.

Of course men have been blamed for creating this circular game of chasing the “woman frock tail”, but is this really so, has my blog peep fiyah examined in his article Rejectionist, is it that women just like being chased, though they’ll claim that it is us men who can’t deal with the “aggression”, thus feeling threatened.

Nature has made it inherent in us as men to go out there and seek our companion, also women are to pick and choose from those suitors that present themselves. The law of nature … don’t fight it. So there is no need to point fingers, we are just responding to the biological mechanism, that helps to define us as men and women.

What, however, we have control over are the choices we make in the type of partners that we choose or the attributes that we find endearing. Though i think i have a fairly competent idea of what it is women in general want in/from a man, i will refrain from commenting on this topic area, because i am quite sure i am not qualified to make those distinctions. 

Through out the life span of a man typically we will experience different stages of desires at different phase levels. These phases thus defines what we hope for from a woman.

The phases are as folows and note they are suppose to follow a chronological order:

1. The need to get experienced and just wet your dick as often as possible. Thus the game of chase begins, and substance within is of limited meaning. Teenage
2. Defining the substance within (both ourselves and the woman) and learning the art of love making, graduating from just dick wetting. Teenage - mid 20s
3. Identifying substantive attributes we desire and trying to get them compatible with that physique we long for. mid 20s - 30s
4. Being involved in a meaningful realtionship 30s -
5. Recognising that a void exist and the need to fill that void
6. Settling down with an end of days mate.

Each one of the these phases are are handled differently by each individual, though there can be collectiveness based on how the man socialise. Unfortunately too is that some men tend to be in a loop for one reason or the other in a particular phase or was just not socialised in a way which allowed them or encouraged them to have the confidence necessary to be able to have gone through the phases. Which can be a real “bitch” on the women.

Each phase carries with it, general desires, that i will explore in a future post. Hope i was able to clear up a few misconceptions

Unfortunately some of us men (would like to think it is a very very few) never even made it to phase one as this likkle chuckle will exemplify

Doctor Dave had slept with one of his patients and felt guilty all day long.
No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he couldn’t.
The guilt and sense of betrayal was overwhelming. But every once in a while he’d hear an internal, reassuring voice in his head that said:
 ”Dave, don’t worry about it. You aren’t the first medical practitioner to sleep with one of their patients and you won’t be the last. And you’re single. Just let it go.
” But invariably another voice in his head would bring him back to reality, whispering: Dave……………>>> Dave…………….>>> Dave…………….>>>>>>>

To my likkle gorilla …smile

 

I’m so addicted damn …… think a gonna need rehab…. NOT!!!!!

For

Question

Ok, this is just a short question, normally i would use owen site for matters like these but this one has really had me going. Each time i think about it, i feel like the perennial dog, chasing his tail. What is the question….here we go

WHO WAS FIRST THE EEG OR THE CHICKEN???

I tell you even when i try to use darwin theory in my thought process still not figuring it out, …. so the big question is did God, assumng y’all believe in the divine being, did he create the big bird first or the likkle egg. mmmmmm i wonder 

Today….. friday 13/8/2007

Got up feeling lousy, suspect i went to bed too late. I am still living on the edge where water is concerned but a really can’t complain cause a whole host a people are so worst of it is unbelieveable.

My car right door window refuses to go wind back down, so have to take that to somebody to have it looked at …..cause boy it annoying. I am not an A/C person and it killing me so that has to be fixed today, two days of that is enuff for me. A so old car give trouble. Then this water thing…. ooohhh wait spoke about that already, bwoy is it ok to cuss even though others are so much more worst of….. mmmm? Alrite lets leave that.

Clothes piling up on me and i am now going to have to use up the tank water to clear some of the wash, my mom lives with me so she deals with that problem, but not today, nope can’t allow her to have her way today or the water would be all gone.

See, i did not cuss…. up to this point i have not eaten any breakfast not sure what the hell to eat. Last nite dinner pots are still in the sink and the water is vanishing before my eyes, so i got to wash those up …. there is no way i am going to prepare food in that condition (scratch head) ….. hey any one of you readers work at NWC can drop them a line for me. Yeah yeah i know i am not suppose to express my inner feelings about this lack of water, cause shitte ..so i’ll just continue writing.

Checked the tank it is a 400 gallon it has only two third left so the pressure from the tank is now threatened soon i won’t be able to get anything in the taps.

No but seriously is what the  #$#$%$^%$ claat water comission dealing with man cho…. them just a stress mi.

Ok i tried …i really tried… for those who made it this far here are some Dean aftermath pics BTW i didnot take any of these pics i got the link from a friend and believe me they are a must see : the airport road, caribbean terrace and some aerial.

Hey my likkle gorilla miss you.

HEROES

I heard this disscussion couple a years back some months after the 9/11 calamity, who are really heroes? The definition is quite clear in all our minds who an hero is….. so i guess we can safely say that Asafa, Sherone, Veronica, 98 Reggae boyz, Bob Marley, Shaggy, Sean Paul, Miss Lou and so much more, are easily icons associated with this title for many. Are they a source of inspiration, are they persons that we truly use to give us a lift to remember that “the brave may fall but never yield” (a never attended KC… need to declare that). Are these heroes, a beacon to which the average man can gaze in times of despair…. that is a question you’ll have to all answer for your self.

But for me i found a real down to earth hero, someone whom i am sure will be able to do just that for me and more. ……Allow me to introduce to you Mr. Linval Anderson.

The resilience of this ras is remarkable. What is so special about this man well here is his story…… He use to work with a factory as an electrical maintance personnel. About 8yrs ago he met into a very unfortunate accident where he was electrocuted, and was severly injured, resulting in the lost of his left arm and right leg. Now this man has been able to rise above his disabilities and soldiered on, he does not ask for hand outs nor squirm and blame the govt for not proving for him. Instead he goes out there and finds a mean to survive, which is by selling every possible newspaper he can get his hands on at the Mineral Heights round-a-bout in Clarendon.

He is affectionately called “oney” or “starry” by his few adoring fans. He ask humblly of those, who stops by his stall, kindly not to give him their sympathy, in other words yuh sorry fah, but give him their prayers, cause they strengthen him to get by. Whenever i pass, i always don’t have change and use a 5 hundred bill to make my purchase and just make him keep the change.  I have also decided to join his fan club….oh and you do not need anything special to join.

This post will forever be my beacon and i can say without any doubt that, this man, he is my biggest hero. He has not given up, and reduced himself to a beggar and a scum of the earth, but instead he lifts his head up, stared down despair and smiled with his God …deciding to be indepent and stand on his own two feet (well one in this case). Unlike a lot who,.. actually have the complete use of both feet and hands ….and nuh ramp fi beg, geeeeez.

Big up oney !!!!!!!

SPEEDING….

Is it speeding that really kills or is it careless drivers. A very terrible accident occured on our streets today causing the total dismembering of two females and seriously injuring tens of others. Another sad day played out in our all too horrific book of life for Jamaicans.

But seriously is not accident due to speeding but a by product of a greater disease “careless drivers”. I will be the first to agree that if some one makes a bad judgement call, that travelling at a slower pace will surely reduce the probability of death (although i would rather die than being a vegetable), also for not so well trained/skilled drivers slower speeds would be much more manageable.  But saying this and that, for me it is more than just speeding.

I remember having a conversation with a friend and he was all about how i drive too fast and i don’t respect my family. Now he really gave it to me, …we were both parked face to face and during his tongue lashing i noticed his tires the front ones they were bald, totally bald, well not totally, there was some amount of treading in the middle, also the thread was showing to the side of one of them. It gets even more interesting both front tires were extremely over inflated (i actually tested it with a psi meter i have), and his car was a toyota corolla … yep front wheel drive. There is more, one of his rear tire was under inflated and only on one of them all the treading was still visible, then his rotor (this is the round metal thing that the brake pads, which were also non-exsisting,  hold on to to stop the vehicle) was totally worn out and his hand brake went all the way up without any noticable tension.

This car was a major accident waiting to happen, he is no better than the person who will overtake blindly or even willing to break the stop light. It is just a mattrer of when not if.

I have never ever driven a vehicle in that condition or even just a little bit near to that in all my life and never will, yes i have driven at extremely high velocity, i will admit but i choose when, where, how and under what condition to do so. To drive a car like that, it is no longer a matter choice but a matter of when it will happen. You see these are not things that i hear being debated as vociferously as the speeding issue and i will maintain that i have been speeding (not saying it is a desierable thing to do) for the past ten years or more and i have never been in an accident…. i am sure that if have been driving my car in the condition my friend had his for the past five years i would ….well use your imagination.

But really is it speed that kills or just bad drivers.

Happy Mommy’s Day

I am seeking some signatures so as we can lobby to the power that be to have the name changed …. and i am serious really. I think it is unfair to bunch all those wonderful and caring Moms in the same category as those that;

• Spend all their money on clothing and such delights to the detriment of the child
• ignore their child plea for help from abuse
• abuse their child wantonly

I could maybe use up the entire volume of the internet making this list, and yes unquestionably so, they are also mothers which for me is unfortunate. Are they moms?NO!!!!!!!!!! definately not, and their contribution to society is normally scathe and misguided children, who most times than many wreck havoc on society, though most times it is not any direct fault of theirs.

So is it just mothers we want to be celebrating or should we be celebrating Mother’s who can show love, who understand that things will never be normal again ( to borrow a cliche from She’s Royal) once you take that path. Mothers who will put their needs on the back burner so has to ensure that the child recieves all the nuturing and guidance they SHOULD GET. These stalwarts of society who sometimes takes on additional roles as teachers, nurses, managers  :)     and host of other professions. But still find time to give that good night kiss, help with the home work, wipe away those tears of uncertainty, …i’m getting a bit choked up here now…. allow me a few mintues………. ……….. These are Phenomenal Women ….. They are Moms

Now can i get an ALLELUYAH!!!!!

Blogging…..

I have now concluded that there is an obvious and define art to blogging, and i can assure all i intend on learning it. Allow me to pay homage to Leon and Island Spice (sure would like to meet these guys together with some bottles on the table and some time on our hands ) they have two clear distinct style and that makes for enjoyable reading. Plus to top it off they have the technical competence that i yearn for badddddily. But good things come to those who wait.

To blog or not to blog is that the question?  There is so much out there that can be done with this concept even if you are a tech dunce like myself. For me it is about sharing snap shots of your life past and present, point to your hopes, and express your thoughts. But i have come to realise that it can be so much more not just sharing the above mentioned but we can actually try the concept of educating.

So on that basis, i intend to embark on discussing my area of profession which is CONSTRUCTION (though i am now in the process of re-tooling) and hope that i would have helped some one in solving some problem(s) they had.

Well what do you think?