There has been a prevalence of topics in regards to relationships between man and woman at one level or the other within the bloggosphere. Now, me being a “nuffy” i just had to get in my two pence too.

My question is, what is it men want in/from a woman? Most women would want to believe they got it down pat. And on this basis an overload of caution is their response to the passionate advances of us men. Thus the “hunt” was created, to which most men find themselves totally enthralled, out of which emerges the never ending cycle.

Of course men have been blamed for creating this circular game of chasing the “woman frock tail”, but is this really so, has my blog peep fiyah examined in his article Rejectionist, is it that women just like being chased, though they’ll claim that it is us men who can’t deal with the “aggression”, thus feeling threatened.

Nature has made it inherent in us as men to go out there and seek our companion, also women are to pick and choose from those suitors that present themselves. The law of nature … don’t fight it. So there is no need to point fingers, we are just responding to the biological mechanism, that helps to define us as men and women.

What, however, we have control over are the choices we make in the type of partners that we choose or the attributes that we find endearing. Though i think i have a fairly competent idea of what it is women in general want in/from a man, i will refrain from commenting on this topic area, because i am quite sure i am not qualified to make those distinctions. 

Through out the life span of a man typically we will experience different stages of desires at different phase levels. These phases thus defines what we hope for from a woman.

The phases are as folows and note they are suppose to follow a chronological order:

1. The need to get experienced and just wet your dick as often as possible. Thus the game of chase begins, and substance within is of limited meaning. Teenage
2. Defining the substance within (both ourselves and the woman) and learning the art of love making, graduating from just dick wetting. Teenage - mid 20s
3. Identifying substantive attributes we desire and trying to get them compatible with that physique we long for. mid 20s – 30s
4. Being involved in a meaningful realtionship 30s -
5. Recognising that a void exist and the need to fill that void
6. Settling down with an end of days mate.

Each one of the these phases are are handled differently by each individual, though there can be collectiveness based on how the man socialise. Unfortunately too is that some men tend to be in a loop for one reason or the other in a particular phase or was just not socialised in a way which allowed them or encouraged them to have the confidence necessary to be able to have gone through the phases. Which can be a real “bitch” on the women.

Each phase carries with it, general desires, that i will explore in a future post. Hope i was able to clear up a few misconceptions

Unfortunately some of us men (would like to think it is a very very few) never even made it to phase one as this likkle chuckle will exemplify

Doctor Dave had slept with one of his patients and felt guilty all day long.
No matter how much he tried to forget about it, he couldn’t.
The guilt and sense of betrayal was overwhelming. But every once in a while he’d hear an internal, reassuring voice in his head that said:
 ”Dave, don’t worry about it. You aren’t the first medical practitioner to sleep with one of their patients and you won’t be the last. And you’re single. Just let it go.
” But invariably another voice in his head would bring him back to reality, whispering: Dave……………>>> Dave…………….>>> Dave…………….>>>>>>>
  

You’re a vet!!!!

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